work or not work

Today while I was with my daughter, I asked her how her dad was doing?  She said he hates his job and trying to sell his house so wife can move out there with him.   She hates not working and living only on his money.  But it was the way she said it like I am leaving off his money when I should be working.   It just got to me and I want to say something but don't want to start up a things.   I am on disability because of my lungs and depression.  Who does she think she is judging me.  She has never seen my side of things.  Why do I get trying to do stuff for her so she will like me.  Her I go calling her, she is sleeping.   Maybe I am just reading too much into it.